Shovavim: Meaning, Halacha, and the Gentle Strength of Jewish Women

Rebbetzin Hannah Miryam Bejarano-Gutierrez
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by Rebbetzin Hannah Miryam Bejarano Gutierrez

⁣⁣Each year, quietly and without fanfare, the period known as Shovavim enters the Jewish calendar. It is not marked by a holiday, nor by a special ritual commanded in the Torah, yet for generations it has carried profound spiritual weight. For Jewish women in particular, Shovavim is not a season of severity, but one of clarity, balance, and dignified return—a time to understand holiness not as pressure, but as alignment.⁣⁣

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-What Is Shovavim? Its Name and Meaning⁣⁣

The term Shovavim is an acronym formed from the opening letters of six Torah portions:⁣⁣

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Shemot⁣⁣

Va’era⁣⁣

Bo⁣⁣

Beshalach⁣⁣

Yitro⁣⁣

Mishpatim⁣⁣

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Together, these parashiyot recount the descent into Egypt, the intensification of bondage, and the gradual unfolding of redemption. The word itself echoes the verse “Shuvu banim shovavim”—“Return, children who have strayed” (Yirmiyahu 3:14). The sages understood this not as condemnation, but as invitation.⁣⁣

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Shovavim is therefore a minhag-based period of teshuvah, not a biblically mandated observance. Its purpose is spiritual recalibration—especially in areas of holiness, personal discipline, and relational integrity.⁣⁣

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-Halachic Status of Shovavim in Sephardic Tradition⁣⁣

From a halachic standpoint, it is crucial to state clearly:⁣⁣

Shovavim is not obligatory, and its practices are customary, varying by community. Among Western Sephardim, i.e., those who follow the Spanish and Portuguese tradition, Kabbalistic observances related to Shovavim are not observed. ⁣⁣

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The Shulchan Aruch does not codify fasting for Shovavim, and many Sephardic authorities caution against adopting stringencies that may cause physical or emotional harm.⁣⁣

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The Ben Ish Chai, representing Mizrahi views, emphasizes that:⁣⁣

*Fasting is not required⁣⁣

*Excessive affliction is discouraged⁣⁣

*Teshuvah should be pursued through tefillah, Torah, restraint, and tzedakah⁣⁣

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Women in particular are not expected to participate in fasts or practices that weaken their ability to care for their households or themselves. The halachic priority remains shalom bayit, physical health, and emotional stability.⁣⁣

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-Why Shovavim Focuses on Holiness⁣⁣

The Arizal explains that the spiritual damage addressed during Shovavim stems from misalignment between physical desire and divine intention. Egypt (Mitzrayim) represents constriction—living without awareness of sacred boundaries.⁣⁣

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For Jewish women, this message manifests differently than for men. Sephardic tradition recognizes that women’s avodah is not primarily corrective through denial, but protective through sanctification.⁣⁣

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This includes:⁣⁣

* Guarding dignity in dress and speech⁣⁣

* Creating an atmosphere of kedushah in the home⁣⁣

* Refining emotional expression⁣⁣

* Honoring marital sanctity within halachic parameters⁣⁣

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These are not symbolic gestures. They are active spiritual repairs.⁣⁣

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-The Role of Women According to Halacha⁣⁣

Halachically, Jewish women are exempt from many time-bound mitzvot—not due to lesser obligation, but due to innate spiritual constancy. The Gemara teaches that women possess binah yeterah, an expanded intuitive understanding (Niddah 45b).⁣⁣

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For this reason, Sephardic sages did not impose uniform Shovavim practices on women. As noted previously, Western Sephardim do not have specific observance related to Shovavim. Nevertheless, there is an opportunity for women to learn from the essence emphasized by other Jewish communities.⁣⁣

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* Increase intentionality in mitzvot they already perform⁣⁣

* Strengthen modesty as self-respect⁣⁣

* Engage in learning relevant to family purity, ethics, and emunah⁣⁣

* Give tzedakah quietly and consistently⁣⁣

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Each of these fulfills the core aim of Shovavim without imposing undue burden.⁣⁣

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-Teshuvah Without Fear or Shame⁣⁣

As a general note, the Rambam defines teshuvah as a process of awareness, regret, change, and commitment—not self-punishment. ⁣⁣

For Jewish women, this often means releasing unrealistic expectations and returning to spiritual truth gently. A woman does not repair the world by becoming harsher with herself. She repairs it by becoming more truthful.⁣⁣

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-The Home as the Center of Tikkun⁣⁣

Halacha places immense value on the Jewish home. The Zohar teaches that the Shechinah dwells where peace, modesty, and intention reside.⁣⁣

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A Jewish woman’s home becomes the primary arena of avodah:⁣⁣

* Speech becomes measured⁣⁣

* Atmosphere becomes calmer⁣⁣

* Mitzvot are performed with attention rather than habit⁣⁣

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These acts create spiritual stability not only for the individual, but for generations.⁣⁣

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-Joy as a Halachic and Spiritual Necessity⁣⁣

The Arizal taught that mitzvot performed without joy cannot ascend fully. Sephardic avodah has always insisted that sadness is not holiness.⁣⁣

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For those who choose to observe it, the period of Shovavim is not meant to suppress joy, femininity, or creativity. On the contrary—it calls for their refinement. A woman who serves Hashem with joy restores balance to spaces fractured by tension.⁣⁣

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-Shovavim as Preparation, Not Pressure⁣⁣

Shovavim is seen as a preparation for freedom. Just as the Israelites were redeemed not by perfection but by faith, so too Shoshavim invites the women who observe it to see it as a way to return —not as their idealized self, but as their authentic spiritual center.⁣⁣

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No one is measured by how much they restrict themselves. They are measured by how deeply they align.⁣⁣

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And that alignment—quiet, consistent, and dignified—is the timeless strength of Jewish women.⁣⁣

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Sources⁣⁣

Yirmiyahu 3:14⁣⁣

Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim⁣⁣

Ben Ish Chai, Year One, Shemot⁣⁣

Rambam, Hilchot Teshuvah⁣⁣

Arizal, Sha’ar HaKavanot⁣⁣

Zohar, Shemot⁣⁣